Not the Face! wrote: [] I know it isn't the best way to relieve the stress and tension that I've had about losing who I thought was my own child.
>.> NTF <.<
I have tears in my eyes. You now have a relationship with this child, and have fulfilled many of the roles of a father -- probably all but the biological one. But that one's of very little importance. You'll often hear from adopted children who are offered the chance to meet their biological parents, "I already have a mommy and a daddy". They don't care about genetics; they only care about who holds them when they're crying and comforts them when they're sick. Being a daddy isn't about contributing some genetic material; it's about spending time with the child, cutting his hair, and teaching him how to grow up. It's up to you whether you want to do that for a child that's not biologically yours. If you do, rest assured he'll see you as a father, and you haven't lost him.
If you want to be his father and his mother doesn't allow it, then my heart really breaks. I'm not sure there's anything you can do. I'll be hoping and praying that she does the right thing, and for clarity in your thought.
when reading this, im only 17 and never got into a relationship so i never know how it will feel, but i do feel your pain, All I have to say is your a great Father and a Motivation in my Life, IDK why she would do such a cruel thing like this? Hopefully this doesn't happen to Anyone and i Really Hope/Wish that you will be able to pick yourself up with all of us Supporting you. Im not big on words but thats the best i got. May God Bless You through this tough times. im Religious too and i'll always pray for you. Lastly, When I grow up I want to be like you, I want to be same dad as you are. Couple of Questions? How old is your son? and does he know about this matter? If he doesn't please let him know when the right time comes, Never hide the truth from him because if your " ex " tells him about this, He won't believe you just like ScorpioN said. You Must have a huge heart to share this with all of us, I really dont know what else to say. GOOD LUCK!
